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Vintage House Senior Center, Sonoma, California, USA
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I
eschew
the popular notion that it's better to give than it is to receive.
That's bon mot thinking which blurs
distinctions.
Giving is one thing. Receiving is
clearly
something different. But it's not merely that the two are
different. It's that as a
complete
human being,
you have to be able to give
generously
when it's appropriate to give, just as
completely
as you have to be able to receive graciously when it's appropriate
to receive.
Twice a year each year all day on Thanksgiving day and Christmas
day, I
participate
in a group of volunteers cooking dinner for around three hundred
infirm, homeless, and senior citizens (actually anyone
is welcome) in Sonoma county over the Mayacamus mountains which
divide Sonoma county from
Napa county,
where I live. I first
awakened
to the opportunity volunteering is,
participating
in
Werner's
Holiday Hospital Project.
If you're going to volunteer with us, make sure you reserve your
place early. That's correct: "reserve" your place
early. Leave it too late, and there may be no room for you, such is
the avalanche of offers / requests from people to volunteer. The
fact that we have to turn away scores of people who
want to volunteer, is one of the
heartwarming
aspects of this: it underlines how much people want to give ie want
to
contribute.
In the morning we prepare
full
turkey dinners with all the trimmings, which are packed into
delivery bags and taken into the community by
teams
of volunteer
drivers,
to the infirm and the elderly who are unable to leave home. In the
afternoon we repeat the
performance
for people who are able to travel and attend our
full
sit-down
dinner. It was while volunteering at this year's Thanksgiving
sit-down
dinner that I really
got
(I mean let in) once again how much people appreciate
it when we give.
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