The very threads of our lives are fragile. Our erstwhile youthful
years' regarding of our bodies as bulletproof and invincible, gives
way to knowing they're fragile, bruisable (sometimes irreparably
so) breakable soft tissue. Our relationships and what we invest in
them are fragile.
Our health
is fragile. Our financial systems, indeed the threads of our very
financial securities, are fragile, dependent as they are on other
networks of equally fragile threads, almost none of which are under
our control ... which almost gets me started on how many of them
are
lacking an acceptable
level of integrity
too.
Observably, the systems we've put in place, and then taken for
granted daily, like our energy and transportation systems, are
fragile. One accident clogs an entire freeway. Changes in the
weather in one location ground countless air travelers across the
country. Indeed the very climate with all its naturally threaded
conditions which give hospitality to our lives, is fragile. Any
thread we break, we break at our own dire peril.
The way to be with our fragility, over and beyond developing
smarter, more robust systems, and becoming more woke
to both our humanity and our environment, is not to ignore our
vulnerability, nor to grouse about it or to shy from it, nor to be
stoic about it, nor (even worse) to pretend it isn't happening and
to "make the most of it". There's no
access
to power ie there's no path to
authentic
being in any of the above.
The
access
to power, the
access
to
authentic
being in all the above, isn't only to protect the fragile threads
of our lives once they become threatened. That's not just a dubious
solution: it's also not a powerful one (not to mention it's often
too late). The powerful way to protect our fragility starts with
being vulnerable. That way, that which is fragile in our lives, can
show up for what it is - kinda like it can reveal
itself for us to attend to in a timely manner. That's where
authenticity
begins. That's where
authenticity
takes root. It's the platform to stand on to consider
what's next.
Anything else is just more ostrich-head-in-the-sand, more
avoidance, more macho.
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